I really want to try new things with my girlfriend and one of them is Anal Sex. She was in a pervious relationship where she was having vaginal sex with her boyfriend at the time and he was going too fast and accidentally slammed into her anus, so now she refuses and gets scared when I even touch her bare butt.
What can I do to ease her into Anal Sex?
Dear Mr Anal,
Thank you too much for question about Anal Sex that definite deserve capital letter because Anal Sex can seem like you try for put large object where smaller object is supposed for be.
You mention incident in “pervious” relationship that seem for make girlfriend impervious for all future anal penetrations. Believe or no, Svutlana can relate personal for girlfriend experience that Svutlana call accidental anal trespass. Excruciate pain be one thing, but excruciate pain in situations where you expect exquisite pleasures be something complete else.
It be like partner all of sudden turn from archangel and good friend of God in for Satan in terrible scare scene from Paradise Lost…
Him the Almighty Power
Hurled headlong flaming from the ethereal sky
With hideous ruin and combustion down
To bottomless perdition, there to dwell
In adamantine chains and penal fire...
Believe or no, you answer own question, Mr Anal. You must ease girlfriend in for Anal Sex with go extreme slow. Approach girlfriend anal passage with most tiny finger and lot of lube and promise for stop if hurt even tiny bits. If girlfriend say no, be sure for say that Anal Sex feel complete different when it no be accidental. Give girlfriend Surrender book write by former ballerina Ms Toni Bentley that rhapsodize about pleasures of Anal Sex perform with pirouettes.
Difference between accidental Anal Sex and Anal Sex perform with skills be like difference between osso buco that chef make and and osso buco that Svutlana make with spaghettis from can. Neither feel good when shove up your ass unexpect however, so if girlfriend still say no for Anal Sex, you must respect her wishes. No try for sneak in back door with finger as if this be okay because you only try for give her pleasures.
Paradoxical, you probable have more success with approach Anal Sex as Svutlana suggest, than if you try for have vaginal sex in rear entry position that guarantee me, will always make girlfriend little bit scare of penal fires.